Dear WIFE,
Here's a question I would like to ask, "How can you get your husband to be romantic without telling him what to do?"
I think that is a good question to ask. I invite all the WIFES that read this blog to chime in. I think that in the beginning, there needs to be a sit down talk about the things you like, desire or things that just turn you on. And give him and opportunity to do those things. I think that you should also ask him and listen to him about the things he would like more of and do those things too. You have to give to get in most situations, so if you are giving him the things that he likes but was not always expecting ~ it might make him think twice and want to return the favor! One thing about women, we have a tendency to want the world from the men in our lives BUT never tell them! So we are sitting there with our arms crossed, lips poked out and he is sitting there wondering what is wrong with us! We have to tell them first and give them a chance and time to respond.
In my household, my husband is actually the romantic one and he is the one that has expressed to me he wants me to be more romantic! Go figure. He plans our vacations, he's the one that is researching the cities we visit for activities to make sure we have a good time. He is thinking about who will watch the kids so we can have alone time. I was very romantic in our dating years so I know I have it in me BUT.... I guess now I have kids, bills, businesses, and shoot LIFE! The last thing I am thinking about most nights are lighting candles, playing R&B oldies, and walking in the room all slow and sexy LOL. BUT he told me that's what he wants, so one in a blue moon he comes home to a surprise! It's puts a big smile on his face.
So I say talk to him and tell him what you like and give him a chance to respond.
Chime in WIFES!
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My husband and I started dating when I was 20 years old. My romantic expections were slim to none at that point. After we got married (and I got a little bit older) my expections changed. Even through the course of our marriage, my expectations have changed. My husband is wonderful. Great with the kids, great provider and always makes me laugh. We connect on so many different levels and I know he would do anything to make me happy but the problem is, someimes he just doesn't know what that is. We've talked about this several times and I keep getting the same response - "what do you want me to do" For me, if I have to tell him exactly what to do, then it's really not that romantic anymore. It's not about buying me expensive gifts or taking me out for fancy meals, it's about the little things. The unexpected. Doing something that I would never expect him to do. It could be something with the kids or something around the house. Just showing me that he is paying attention to me and appreciates me for all that I do. I certainly appreciate him and try my best to make sure he knows that. I make sure we have time together by sending the kids away for the weekend and planning special getaways but what about me? When is it my turn? Or should I just come to terms that this is just the way things are going to be?
I was just talking or fussing at my husband about this very subject this morning.... I am the romantic one. He can be, but I dont want to tell him what to do either. I am the one always choosing where we will go, what we will do. I dont want too. I appreciate all he does because he does a lot. But at the end of the day I want to come home to him having candles lit, bath water ran, flowers etc. I will continue to do what I do, but like the previous post what about me? I dont want to have to fuss or make mention. But what i will do is have a nice dinner and talk about what I want and see if I can step up my game as well.
I understand full well what the two previous ladies are talking about. I am the romantic of the two of us but like yall said I don't want to tell you what to do because then it won't be so romantic anymore. My significant other will (every blue moon) offer a massage or come home with flowers just because but my problem is I don't want it every blue moon; I want a little romance everyday...whether it be a little love note left on the fridge or a dozen roses sent to my job...just something to let me know you are thinking of me. Now how do we get him to do these things without telling him is the million dollar question. The only thing that would work IS communication because he doesn't know what you want until you tell him. Or just come to grips that he is just not the romantic you want him to be.
I believe the only way to get your husband to be romantic and give you the things you want is to sit down and tell him what you are looking for. He may just not know what makes you smile, turns you on, gets you excited. Is it a card from him telling you how much he loves you? Is it a nice candle lit dinner with jazz playing in the background? If it is, how will he know what you desure if you don't tell him. My husband is very romantic, it's me that has to work on the romantic stuff a little more. LOL. But like one of the ladies said, just have a conversation and tell him what it is you want. He may even surprise you and tell you a thing or two about what he wants more from you. Good luck.
This was good. thanks ladies... I am gonna go home and be romantical with my babes and let him know what I want and what makes me long for him... not to mention listen to him as well, and ask him what he wants and try to provide that. What i am doing is great, but he may have something else in mind.... Have a great conversation and then blow his mind. I guess I was being a little selfish by not throwing out hints. Wish me luck....
Reading the first comment made me think about how I have grown over the years too. I starting dating my husband when I was 23 years old. And I was still so independant, that I didn't really care about opening up the door, pulling out the chair, etc. Ya know chivalry! Not to say he didn't want to do that, I just didn't need it. When he would try, it was too late because I already opened the door or got my own chair. I didn't need a man to do that for me! BUT that was my thinking. Now that I am older, I know that mindset comes from me not having a father around (he's alive but wasn't around) to show me how a man should treat you in terms of being a gentleman. But now that I am older, I have grown and I want those things. But he doesn't do them now! LOL... why because I never required it. What's funny is he would do it when we were in front of friends b/c their husbands did it, but when we were alone he didn't do it. I now want my door opened, my chair pulled out. I want him to put me in the car first. For a long time I didn't say anything, I would start walking slower to see what he would do. Sometimes, he would catch on and sometimes he wouldn't. I found myself getting mad but then had to realize, he didn't know that I have grown into my womanhood and require more. Need more. So I had to have a conversation with him and let him know that I have grown. It's 10 years later. I don't like the same things I used to. I desire more. And you know what, he tries to make me happy. He said, he always wanted to do those things for me, but he it was me! *excuse the mistakes, I was typing super fast!
ok, now that I just got blasted by Ms. Wife! I posted a comment earlier but it didn't paste here. Anyway it's all good. Well, let's see if I can para-phrase what I said earlier. Basically, romance had to be present in the beginning of the relationship. I know you can teach an old dog new tricks but it can get frustrating when you keep going over the same trick when you have so many other tricks to teach. I have to say my husband is usually the romancer but I've done my share also (i think). I guess I look at it as if I romance him like that every time then he would be say "ugh, that again". But I have to say I have learned when to take it to the next level with romance. I use to hear women all the time talk about how you need to know your man. well, its true. Wait, Wait,Wait and Wham. LOL I think men do the same thing if it is in them from the beginning. They have to be willing to open up.
I've been with my husband almost 20 years now (only 8 of those married) and I honestly think that it just depends on the man. Before "we" were married and in our dating stage, everytime I turned around it was a box of something or a kind of blindfold moment where he took me off somewhere romantic but now, after 8-years of marriage, 2 kids, a couple of stressful careers, bills, in-laws, etc., etc., he's just not that "intuned" to the romantic "stuff" that much nowadays. Now I will say, he is the most loving and sweetest guy you ever want to deal with but he's just.....a dude-lol! I love him dearly and would very much like for him to come in the house every now and again with a box, bag or just a "I'm taking the kids to the sitter and were headed......", it wouldnt even matter where, let's just go! However in my 20 years in "this relationship" with "this man" I've come to know that the only way (now-a-days) for him to do something truly romantic is to just DROP THE HINTS!
I dont doubt his love and his sincere adoration for me, it's just that he's not the guy in the novel I'm reading, or my friends truly romantic husband. As much as we feel like we shouldnt have to (drop hints or tell him just what we would like) we have to realize that he's human too and is just not wired in the same way that we (women) are. I think it's really based on who you're dealing with and if you just know that your husband is not going to ever really get it (you know, the whole romantic thing) then you need to just do what works for yall and if that's hint dropping or flat out telling him what you want or how you feel then I think that's what you do. And honestly, there will be those moments (every now and again) where he pops up with a little somen' somen' for you;-), it's happened to me quite a few times!
I think we as women have just got to really accept who were married to and just know that "our husband" is not the dude down the street or the guy we saw purpsoing to his girlfriend in the park (cause trust me, in due time and after a couple kids and life sets in on the new love birds, that woman may start to experience the same thing(s) that we're dealing with-Lol!). They love us truly but just may not show it in that fairy tale kind of way we (as women) always dreamed it should be. KNOW HIM, LOVE HIM, DROP THE HINTS and keep it moving.
Be Blessed and honestly I hope this helps and I hope you dont take my matter-of-factness' as harshness it's just that I've been in this game for almost 2o years and I'm JUST NOW starting to "get it" myself-lol!
April
Be Blessed!
I am spontaneous and just do things differently all the time. Sometimes he catches on which is wonderful and does really nice things as a surprise. When he doesn't "step up" on the romance tip, it is dissappointing sometimes, but for the most part, I'm cool.
My hubby get the bug only on holidays and do a pretty good job but otherwise Im the romantic freak it is like he dont know what to do any other time or feel that is the only time to do but enjoy it when it is being done for him. So as women we just have to give hints and bare with it as things go by until their is a change.
@Anonymous said..... So, what you have to do is strategically have the candles lit, the bath water ran,flowers, and a full body massage utilizing an excellent scented oil until it finally registers to him that is what you want from him. Also, give him plenty of foreplay and passionate lovemaking is also needed to get him to do what you want him to do, of course he may catch on right away ,but eventually he will make a concerted effort to return your generosity.
ok I am only 19 years old and i have been married for 1 year so far...my husband is 23 and to think that at this age, that when they should be the most romantic but sadly everytime i tell him a romantic prase or we get in the mood, he ends up cracking a joke...he's into all that sexual stuff , its just that one time i would like for him to walk in the door holding a rse for no special reason or occasion just because he missed me and felt like getting it..people say easier said than done but in our relaionship its only done...i would like to hear a couple ofnice words from now and then
So what if you're in a situation where you have already talked to the man about what you want and what turns you on and he still doesn't do it? He keeps going back to doing the things that irritate me and turn me off, because those are things that work for him and he thinks it's funny? It's not funny and it doesn't put me in the mood. In fact it has the opposite effect. So what now? Every once in a while I get a nice massage from him if I had an intensly long hard day and I'm exhusted, which is nice, but it would be even better if he could do more of that when I don't feel exhusted just to do it because he wants to. Or take me out once in a while and have some close bonding time. We never get that anymore. I have talked to him and I have told him what I want and now I don't know what else I can do. He's a wonderful man and takes great care of me and loves me dearly, but he's lacking in the intimacy and romantic departments. Is this the way it's always going to be? :(
I think the thing which tells me my husband loves me is when we talk and laugh together. But I admit I want more. I've hinted, said outright that he needs to be more romantic, and even sent him a link to "Romance For Dummies." lol So far, I've gotten no real romantic gestures from him. I don't need them every day, but it would be nice to get flowers, a massage, a date night arranged ... whatever, as long as I don't have to tell him what to do. I'm not wanting him to read my mind. Just want him to think of something that shows how much he appreciates me. Why is it so hard for him? I do lots of things to show him I appreciate him - from cooking special dishes to funny or romantic cards or messages to impulsively bringing home a magazine I know he'll like. We've been together over 30 years. He should know me well enough by now to do something similar for me. Honestly, it makes me wonder if he really does know me!
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Tell him exactly what to do first; then give him the general idea; then ask him to improvise. No different from training a dog, a kid or an employee.
Its nice to read about all of your comments....I have been recently married less than 6 months and we dated for a year in long distance until he moved into the same town after we got married. He is awesome level headed person but when it comes to Romance and expressing affection , am not sure what happened in that department...I have not had any problems initiating a million times but get turned down 80% of the time....i have tried every method of communicating exactly what i desire and have asked him the same on how i could make him feel better but still he isn't interested.....He is 36 and am not sure if its like a "been there done that " zone , and am a very passionate person struggling with managing my feelings but i have suppressed most of my expectations just to accept him. I am ok not receiving any gifts and haven't ever gotten a card or flowers ...he is very caring and thoughtful around the house etc....i am completely at loss in how to address things as he just thinks i should do what makes me happy and am in control of my emotions ....i have failed after all my creativity to at least meet me half way and am not sure inspite of hearing if he's actually listening....but life goes on and we love each other a lot so am just keeping myself focused on everything else ....would love any words of wisdom.
So what do you do when you've tried telling him,giving him examples of what you want (like having a candle lit bubble bath drawn and a glass of cold wine), or have done the special meal with his favorite dessert ; ). And he still doesn't get it? We are coming up to our 25th wedding anniversary and quite frankly I just don't know what to. We have talked about it and he says he will try but then nothing happens. I am tired of waiting.
I am 18 and have been married since December 30, 2011 and he is 19 I got married in High School and I have the same thing. He is amazing but I have told him what I like on many many many occasions. I know what he likes but then once I do that he asks me what I want him to do. I cook dinners I plan a couple things but then he will crack a joke or ask me so much of what I want him to do I just feel like I am done. I don't know what to do other than what I have been doing. I have tried to mix it up a little but I don't get anything from him.
My husband & I have been married 7yrs we have 3 kids. We have had some problems in our marriage but nothing major a few personality clashes however one of the problems we are currently having is NEEDS he has his & I have mine the problem with that is in our past I haven't been the most concerned person for my husband nor his needs, (something I'm working on, I am & have been very selfish) but more that I have realized I need to change I have done just that. I have been doing EVERYTHING HE HAD WANTED SEXUALLY! We r even talking about a 3 some (2 women, Im only doing this for him) I want ROMANCE, but when I request this from him he treks me "IT'S NOT HIM" & he makes very very little attempts to be romantic, he had also told me that I dont deserve him to be because of how inconsiderate I was towards him. I have excerpted this for sometime however I'm not into women...but I would b for benefit of our relationship to mention a 3 some involves another person being romantic in very intimate bringing us closer together what do I ned to do be what he needs in order to get what I need? Or am I stol being shellfish & thinking only of myself?
I have been with my husband now for nine years today and we had to post pone our plans because of life just getting in the way, but I still got him something because today is the day not next week and I was fully expecting something when he got home and I got nothing I have told him many times that I NEED certain things but I get no response. I think that I am romantic with him because I do, do the whole dress up, candles, music, heels and the whole nine yards he enjoys it very much when I do certain things that make him happy but I get nothing in return how can I really make him understand my needs!!!!
I personally am sick of asking for nights out, or romantic diners or time just with me for one on one time. I don't wan to be the initiator and have told him this several times. I've even told him what to do to be romantic to help him. He doesn't do those things. He want's me to continually initiate or request attention. I'm not that way and need spontaneous romantic events. His gifts to me are also inappropriate, I'm not trying to be ungrateful here. However, usually the gifts are more about him then me. I would just like once for a mothers day week end to be about me, and not him or whatever is going on. Its sad when I get questioned about infidelity when in fact there's ah no one else. Just him, and my school work to graduate with my BFA. I get he's a man and worries but I don't know what more to do to help him understand my personal needs beyond the physical. I don;t want much to be physical when there's no interpersonal interaction on a communication basis. I've told him this and he just gets depressed. I don;t get what's so hard about cooking me a meal. It doesn't have to be fancy and it doesn't have to be worth tones of money. Jeez I'm a easy going kind of girl it could be a little as a picnic lunch and I'd be over joyed. Any ideas how to help me and my husband become more relaitable to each other again? I really do try to understand him, but find it hard when I constantly get ignored when I suggest him things to try.
I don't really think anyone will read this but I'm in the same boat as the vast majority of the above are. One thing that my husband and I worked out that seems to work and gives him ideas is putting ideas on what I want on little pieces of paper and putting them in a puzzle box that a friend of mine brought back from Afghanistan. It has two keys. He opens it and gets an idea then he does it. It makes is random and spontaneous.
My husband dosent have a romance bone in his body, i will go all out making someyhing special for dinner, or try to get close to him, but he just eat dosent or ever compliment i feel am fighting battle. I get so fustrated can somebody, any body help me.
I found a great tip online that would have never thought of. I'm a classic textbook romantic. I want hearts and flowers all the way but my husband could care less. Its been a hard contrast.
He said he would be happy to take me on dates again. I'm not talking going through fast food and catching the newest action film, I mean a walk on the beach, a candlelight dinner a homecooked meal really anyhing. But he never plans anything and his idea of romance isn't the same as mine. So here is what we are going to try. We are planning dates all at once. Writing them and putting them in an envelope. Label the envelope with weather or time reatrictions. All I will have to do is say I want to have a romantic night out he can pick a card and have whatever date is in there. Easy for him, romantic for us, stress free for me.
I think a threesome is selfish on his part. He married you!
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Hmmm... I'm a man and all I'm reading here is "I want, I want, I want." Even the title of this piece points out women's absurd logic: how to get a man to do something without telling him. I know you've heard this a million times, but: MEN ARE NOT MIND READERS! If you want something you need to tell him. You need to stop watching Disney princess movies and get real. Why is it that women have all these needs, but men never do? I would never ask my wife to jump through all these hoops (and guess which hoops to jump through on top of that) for me. You're selfish and will never be satisfied. If your guy happens to guess what you like, you'll change the rules. No wonder men have stopped trying. Have fun dying alone; you've earned it.
What about the man's desires? Aren't his needs as important as yours?
- I don't want to pay for overpriced flowers, chocolates, or meals just because Hallmark tells me to
- Lingerie is silly; if you want it then get it but don't expect me to like it
- I actually like spending time with the kids; why are you always so eager to get away from them?
- If you want to take a bath, then take a bath! I don't need to be involved.
- I don't drink, so if you want wine then get it yourself.
- I don't ask anything of you, so you have no right to demand anything from me.
I'm so sick of selfish, entitled women. Be a big girl and take care of yourself the way men do.
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your problems too,if you are in any condition related
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'After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called Dr Zuma zuk and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: spiritualherbalisthealers@gmail.com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS'
I just want to share my experience and testimony here, I Met a Powerful Spell caster and Psychic online Dr Zeulos of Ancient Spiritual Temple,at first i thought he was fake because I have been scammed before and there are so many fake artists online, but Dr Zeulos of Ancient Spiritual Temple his very Real, Honest and Genuine.. He helped me get my lover back, there is no bad or negative effect.The Psychic uses white Magic and he helped me get my Lover back, it worked and in 4 days , My lover came back to me, apologized for leaving and now we are back together and as happy as ever… I will encourage and recommend anyone to contact the spell caster and ask him for help.. He does all kinds of spells asides love spells. just tell him your situation and he will help you… you can email him on info@ancientspiritualtemple.pe.hu or check him directly on his website at www.ancientspiritualtemple.pe.hu "" he is the answer to your problem.. Thanks
What do i stand for in this world without my lover by my side?, This was the taught that was running through my mind when my lover departed from me. You know one thing i believe in is that once you are having problems that are bringing you down God always use people to raise you up. In my case it was Dr.Zadson that was used in helping me get my lover back, Since the help of Dr.Zadson i must say that my relationship has been filled with more love and as a matter of fact my lover never does a thing without me. So you see this is the more reason why i must thank Dr.Zadson and the more reason why i must put his details on this site to enable other people contact him via email
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After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called dr clement and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast a powerful spell on my ex and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm, My ex called me, surprisingly, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me back to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody that has a relationship problem, he we be a help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email:drakugbespellhome@gmail.com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or any kind of problem, thank you once again dr for bring my husband back to me .I can never stop talking about you sir you can email him for your own help his email is drakugbespellhome@gmail.com
HELLO to my friends out there i am testifying about the good work of a man who helped me. It has been hell from the day my husband left me, i am a woman with two kids, my problem started when the father of my kids travelled and after then i did not set my eyes on him again i tried calling his phone but he was not picking up my call after some weeks he called me telling me that he has found love some where else, at first i never knew he took it to be serious but the day after he came to the house to pick up his things that was the time i noticed that things are not the same as it used to be and i kept having hope that he will come back but things were going bad day by day and i needed to talk to someone about it and i went to his friend but there was no hope so i gave up on him, years later i met a man on the the internet a spell caster i never believed in this but i needed my husband back so i told the spell caster my problem at first and he assured me that i will get him back but i had to do what he told me to do and after three days my husband called me telling me that he his coming home i still do not believe but as at the fourth day the father to my kids came to the house asking me to forgive him, from that day i was happy with my family thanks to the DR EHOHO TEMPLE he his a great man you need to try him you can as well tell him your problem so that he can be of help to you his contact drehohotemple@gmail.com or cell number +2348128037847 indeed you are a priest thank you for making my home a happy home again. remember his email: drehohotemple@gmail.com or cell number +2348128037847 His is determined to offer exactly what you're seeking for: Fast and everlasting results!
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Am Joyce Benson, my husband is back after separation. thanks to Dr Happy for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again. My husband and I separated 9 months ago and our children, Emily and Robert, live with her in London, but see me every weekend i needed my husband and children back home, I was totally devastated and confused and did not know how to bring them back home because i have tried all my possible best all to no avail, until an old friend of mine told me about a spell caster on the internet called Dr Happy who help people with their relationship and marriage problem by the powers of love spells, at first I doubted if such thing ever exists but decided to give it a try, when I contacted him i told him everything and he told me that everything will be fine that my family are going to come back to me, all he said i will do is for me to provide the money for him to buy the items and i did and he told me that he is going to cast the spell, he helped me cast a spell and within 48 hours my husband came back to me and started apologizing, now he has stopped going out with women and he is with me for good and for real. you can Contact him on { howtogetyourexback@hotmail.com} he is genuine. If you have any problem contact Dr Happy he is real and always ready to solve your problem , E-mail: howtogetyourexback@hotmail.com.
It is been said that one good turn deserved another that is the reasoning why i am using this medium to thank Dr.Ogudugu for his assistance during my time of hardship in my relationship. But looking at it from this angle that Dr.Ogudugu has saved my relationship by casting a spell for me which brought my lover within period of 48 hours, What really shocked me emotional was that my lover has been more romantic since the help of Dr.Ogudugu. In order to do a lot of people huge favor i will write down the details of Dr.Ogudugu via email greatogudugu@gmail.com
hello my name is mr, Micheal i
Live in Japanese i want you all to join me to
thank this man for restoring my relationship with my ex lover
who dump me for another Man for 5 months because the
man had money, at first i never believed priest azula. will be able
to help me win Rose back from this other other guy but
because i still love her and need her back in my life, i worked
and follow his instruction and it surprise me that after
working with him, Rose called me and ask me to forgive
and forget the past that she still love me and that was how
me and my angel came back for good. So with this great
work done for by dr EHIS i promise to always share
his good work to the whole wide world and if any body is out
there passing through any relationship difficulties should
kindly contact him on :{EHISOJOKU@HOTMAIL.COM}.
Please everyone must read this: Dr. Todd is a rare person. He is very kind, and always answered my questions. That's why I decided to cast a spell with him. When other casters just show interest in getting my money, Dr. Todd listened to my problem. I felt very confident with him, and put a lot of trust in his work. I know if I had no faith, my spell wouldn't have worked, and not so fast! If you contact TODD, I am sure you will understand what I mean. He is the kindest and the results of his spells are terrific! My story is that I was in love with my boss since I have this job. It's been almost 3 year. I tried a lot of spells to attract him, make him love me, have an affair etc? A few sex spells worked but love spells didn't until I found Dr. Todd When I read his first I knew he was different from normal casters who don't take time to answer. That's why I decided to ask him to cast a permanent love spell and a marriage spell. 34 days after the spell was cast, my boss sent me an email and invited me to the restaurant to announce me something important! The feeling I had when I opened his message was kinda weird. A mix between happiness, anxiety, and I was shocked by the power of that spell. At the same time, I thought it could be a promotion or a salary boost. Anyway, the dinner was fantastic. Food was great, it was French I think. Before dessert came, he asked me to be his wife!!! This moment was crazy! I felt adrenalin rising and my heart could have explode I think! It was the best day in my life! I must thank Dr. Todd! I recommend him to everyone! e-mail: (manifestspellcast@gmail.com)
Getting back with your ex lover,urgently with love spell is really the best spell caster with 100% guarantee..my names is Kimberly Johnson ,AM from United states .i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in June last year on a business summit i meet a man called prophet ogidi, is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love s gone misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job i m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 4 year i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try and in 5 days when i returned to taxes my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help his email address:miraclecenter110@gmail.com or you can call him at +2348182260982
Getting back with your ex lover,urgently with love spell is really the best spell caster with 100% guarantee..my names is Kimberly Johnson ,AM from United states .i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in June last year on a business summit i meet a man called prophet ogidi, is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love s gone misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job i m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 4 year i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try and in 5 days when i returned to taxes my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help his email address:miraclecenter110@gmail.com or you can call him at +2348182260982
My Husband was so smooth at hiding his infidelity and I had no proof for months, I was referred to Private investigator and decided to give him a try.. the result was incredible because all my cheating husband's text messages, whatsapp, facebook and even phone calls conversations was linked directly to my cellphone. (worldcyberhackers@gmail.com) Mr James helped me put a round-the-clock monitoring on him and I got concrete evidence and gave it to my lawyer..if your husband is an expert at hiding his cheating adventures contact him
If you know you not ready for a relationship why get into one and still cheat and liar. I was dying inside for my cheating wife, i had no prove, no one to run to. Everyone thought i was paranoid. until i was referred to a Private Investigator Mr James . I told him about my situation and He understood me well and helped me spy on my wifes iphone.He hacked her Gmail and Facebook account and linked all her WhatsApp and phone conversation to me, to find out the truth.I saw all the evidence and i was heart Broken,I just want to openly say thank you Mr James for helping me get evidence against her,i feel so hurt. If you need help please contact him (Worldcyberhackers@gmail.com) via email.
My husband and i got Married last year and we have been living happily for a while. We used to be free with everything and never kept any secret from each other until recently everything changed when he got a new Job in NewYork 2 months ago.He has been avoiding my calls and told me he is working,i got suspicious when i saw a comment of a woman on his Facebook Picture and the way he replied her. I asked my husband about it and he told me that she is co-worker in his organization,We had a big argument and he has not been picking my calls,this went on for long until one day i decided to notify my friend about this and that was how she introduced me to Mr James(Worldcyberhackers@gmail.com) a Private Investigator who helped her when she was having issues with her Husband. I never believed he could do it but until i gave him my husbands Mobile phone number. He proved to me by hacking into my husbands phone. where i found so many evidence and proof in his Text messages, Emails and pictures that my husband has an affairs with another woman.i have sent all the evidence to our lawyer.I just want to thank Mr James for helping me because i have all the evidence and proof to my lawyer,I Feel so sad about infidelity.
Good day everybody am here to share my life testimony to you all and to those time of life you think everything has end. No there is always a way out, my life is an example of that , my name is Sandra Barfinder am from CANADA. i have been married for 4years now with two kids, i sacrifice my life my money to make sure our marriage is okay and to have a happy family. i noticed that my husband is cheating on me with other women so i consult a friend online who help me out with a spell to get him back in my life and to have a happy marriage he introduce me to Dr Sharaja the spell caster. thanks to the spell caster Dr sharaja Sid who caster the spell on him. me and my husband is back and live happily. you can also contact him via email or phone: sharajasid@gmail.com
Thanks
sandra barfinder
I want to use this opportunity to tell everyone, that i am very grateful to this man Dr Lucky Spell Caster for helping me get back my husband’ after he abandoned me for six months with pains and tears in my heart. Before the breakup, he usually insult and see nothing good in me and any thing i do, i felt as if i was cursed. my friends advised me to let go but i couldn’t because of the love i have for him which was so strong and could even move ten mountains in a speed of light.So i had to seek for help and i saw so many good testimonies about this man Dr Lucky and i decide to contact him and explain my problem to him and he assured me of good result.After two days of my contact with Dr Lucky my husband came back with apologies and love that he had never show me before. right now he doesn’t insult me any more rather he tells me how pretty and wonderfully made each morning. .Today i am also sharing my testimonies and experience about Dr Lucky which is so wonderful and i will never stop publishing his name so that who ever that is going through breakup and problem in their relationship should also contact him so he can also help you.Once again Dr Lucky i am extremely grateful to you contact email Realspellcasteronline@gmail.com
This is my testimony about the good work of Dr Abaka who help me.... I'm renee from Florida. And am sorry for putting this on net but i will have to by this world top spell caster that brought back my husband which left me out for past 2 years, i eventually met this man on a blog site posting by one of is client for help, i explained everything to him and he told me about a spell caster that he had heard about and he gave me an email address to write to the spell caster to tell him my problems. In just 2 days, my husband was back to me. I just want to say thank you to this truthful and sincere spell caster, sir all you told have come to pass and thank you sir. Please i want to tell everyone who is looking for any solution to problem, i advice you to kindly consult this spell caster, he is real,he is powerful and whatever the spell caster tell is what will happen, because all what the spell caster told me came to pass. You can kindly contact him on: his email address is drabakaspelltemple@gmail.com or directly on whasapp +2349063230051.
My life was falling apart, I was being cheated and abused, I had to know the truth and needed proof. i saw a post about a private investigator (worldcyberhackers) Through Gmail , by a friend. i contacted them and they took care of my needs. they hacked his iphone and gave me all information in all his social media account, facebook,instagram, Whatsapp,and email account. I got all I wanted as proof . I am glad i had a proven truth he was cheating and i have sent them to my Lawyer . I recommend them if you need help. you can contact on whatsApp : +12678773020 or mail.
Are you in bad need of love spell to bring back your ex lover or reunite your marriage? contact Dr uneme for fast 48 hours solution. I had a problem with my husband a year and six months ago, which lead us apart. When he broke up with me, I was confuse and did not know what to do to get him back, I felt so empty inside. Until i came across Dr uneme on the internet on how He has helped so many people solve there various problem. I emailed Him and I told Him my problem and i did what he asked me to do for him to help me, to briefly make the long story short, Before I knew it, in less than 48 HOURS, my Husband gave me a call and he came back to me and told me he was sorry about what was going on between the both of us. Finally I am writing this testimony to offer my thanks and deep gratitude to you Dr uneme for keeping to your words and your promises in bringing him back to me in just 48 hours of your powerful spell casting, and for using your gifted and great powers to bring him back. If you need his help, you can email him at ( unemespellben@gmail.com ) or add Dr uneme on WhatsApp ( +2348143813120 ) or call him get all your problems solve No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him now Linda from united state THANKS TO Dr uneme
I’m so excited because my broken marriage has been restored & my husband is back after he left me and our 2 kids for another woman. After 8 years of marriage, me and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me and moved to California to be with another woman. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that DR.Osasu can help get ex back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a (Love spell) for me. 28 hours later, my husband really called me and told me that he miss me and the kids so much, So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and the kids. Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before,All thanks to DR.Osasu . he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that DR.Osasu real and powerful spell caster who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are here and you need your Ex back or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact: Email him at:Account:
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My ex-boyfriend dumped me 8months ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me .I was so confuse and don’t know what to do, so I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 2days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. once again thank you Dr Godday you are truly talented and gifted. Email: Goddayspiritualhome@gmail.com is the only answer. he can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man contact +19194956404 - WHATSAPP ONLY
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