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Alrighty... This idea came from a recent post about married women faking it while having sex with their husbands. Some did fake it and some did not. But a WIFE brought up a great point, what if the husbands faked it?! How would we know? And I thought, how would we know? Most women think that men are just happy to GET IT and that that alone is satisfying. I believe that is not the case. I believe MARRIED MEN want more from their wives. I believe you want to actually please her and in return be pleased as well. I am sure you want more oral sex but isn't it about more? Please tell us.... what are you not getting? or what are you getting that is making you smile. WIVES want to know! So tell us.
One more quick question HUSBANDS... if you do fake it, why haven't you told your wife what she is doing wrong?
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s far as faking it I guess your talking about an orgasm. If you know your partners body, how they act, the physical involuntary responses to climax you should know if they fake it or not. How would you know as you asked, pay attention !Sex is like anything else you have to adjust to who you are dealing with and you do that by paying attention to what makes them go ahhh instead of ouch. Men are not just happy to get it! If you are dealing with a grown man chances are he has has plenty of it before so it takes a lot more then a naked willing body to get the desired correct desired effect. We do ant more we have all had an all out freak but the thing is mostly we didn't get married to them. There is a certain amount of sexual respect you pay to your wife, the mother of your kid that the high school chick that uses to get done in the back seat would never get.
Though I have never “faked it” personally, I can see why some men do. The prevailing opinion is that men should be able to climax whenever, wherever and under any circumstance. Of course, this simply isn’t true. While, in general, it may be easier for a man to reach orgasm than it is for a woman, there are certainly some situations in which it is difficult at best. Unlike many women who are capable of multiple orgasms, most men can only climax once or twice before their energy is spent. So, if a guy has already had sex once, twice or three times in a single night, making it happen yet another time may be asking for too much. The same applies if he masturbated earlier in the day. General exhaustion could also be a factor in preventing an orgasm from happening, as well as having a few too many drinks.
Yes men fake it sometimes just like women. It can come from an off performance from the partner or maybe himself. There may be a really important game on that night and that is the time when your partner decides it is the time. Believe it or not sometimes men are just not in the mood, so they do not want to tell their partner no and she feels like she has been rejected.
I have not "faked" anything in my current marriage but I have in a previous relationship. We were so sexually incompatible that I stopped being attracted to her and would only be intimate out of obligation. When I felt like she was satisfied I would pretend to reach that point. One time she looked at me and said, "I didn't feel you c#m." I just looked at her stupid and acted like I was tired and wanted to sleep...LOL. So yes, it may happen much less than with women but don't get it twisted ladies...men do it too!
Yes,men do it, but personally I thinks it's not under normal circumstances. I've done it only a few times, but it was either I was completely not in the mood or 2 intoxicated to climax, which is very rare, or a long long time ago, I smelled something, and I just completely dropped. Again, this is only a few occasions. In my oponion most men don't have a problem climaxing, some do it in a matter of minutes, @ me it's just much easier, but a good lover will let his female partner reach her climax and then get his, Just saying, bottom line is a few do it, but it's rare and if a man is doing it on a regualar basis, I would suggest counseling immediately if not sooner.
I've faked moans because I'm usually silent and my lover thought that meant I wasn't enjoying it, so I would do it to please her; and I've faked orgasms when I really didn't want sex but she did. So when she came, I'd make it seem like we came together.
Men I am so glad that u all were open and honest....I know yall fake it too...maybe not as often as a women may, but fake it none the less. Most of the time most women blame the man for the problems in the bedroom not even giving it any thought that it might actually be her, but talking to my brothers and my husband I found out some interesting things when it comes to this subject. I'm so open and honest when it comes to sex in my marriage and even prior to because I feel like what u put out is what u get back...so I make extra special for my Booh...and if it ain't cuttin it, HE will let me know and the same on my end....so I think the solution to this is just be honest and if there is no hope for improvement...keep it movin!
I have faked it before and still do. If I am just not in the mood, I will carry the torch. Being married we must go through it even when we don't want to sometime. But, before my marriage if the woman I was with just wasn't what I thought she would be in the bedroom I did fake it to get it over with.
I tried to make comment but every single time I tried it someone texted me or called. I will say this, not posting some people names when you ask mens questions is smart. Being that some women can be over protective of their men. Not to have woman blogging them back. But to answer your question yes men do and why (there tired of the same senarials ,when making love or sex). This differs between couples. It should be each's reponsibility to give one another your best everytime. Meeting each's need when one of the two are not getting there's met, That's when faking creeps in. Stay away from faking be honest with your partner if your not satisfied.
Ok, I just don't get it. I mean if you are able to fake it, that mean someone is not in tune. And if you can fake it in such an intimate area of your life/relationship, then where else. If you are in a relationship you should be open and honest. Once you start down that road of deception who knows where it will end. If you are not in the mood just say so. True love conquers all. Even in the bedroom. In order to fix a problem one must know that there is one. Faking and not being upfront is trick of the devil. Bind him and rebuke him from your life. We only live once so let’s enjoy it. And to be honest I never knew men faked it. I mean why, it’s just don’t make sense……..Mr Man
I'm confused????? Faking it??? Men??? This is something I've never even heard of nor experienced!!! If anything we fake that we haven't yet!!! The orgasims for men and women are totally different with most women it's mental but with men it's all physical (friction). I have never heard of a man faking orgasims!!! That don't even sound manly! Women fake orgasims mainly because they don't want to hurt their partners feelings because he can't bring her to climax. Who's ever heard of a woman not being able to bring a man to climax. So to answer your question.. Hell no MEN do not fake it!!! Now if you were talking about something else pardon me. And I am bold enough, you are welcome to post my name because I stand behind what I say.
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