Do you believe that a soulmate actually exist? I really don't know. To me a soulmate is that person that YOU KNOW was made just for you. It's a connection that you have that no one can come in between and time apart doesn't make the love fade. You look at each other and know what the other is thinking, or finish each other sentences. It's also of feeling of being just RIGHT. When you are with that person, it's just right on all levels. You see each other. Not just see them across the room BUT YOU SEE each other. You can look into them. They see into you. It's a feeling like no other. It's your soulmate.
Like I said, I don't know if the word or actual idea of a soulmate exist. But I have heard it growing up and I will tell you I have experienced what I described above. So for me my soulmate does exist.
With that being said.... do you know who your soulmate is? Is it your husband? Do you believe in a soulmate? I think the worse feeling for a man or woman is to know who you are meant to be with or I won't say meant to be with but who you feel is your soulmate and they feel exactly the same BUT you can't be together because of circumstances and previous choices you might have made. DAMN!
So ladies, what do you think?
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Yes I do believe in soulmates and yes I think my husband is mines.Since we do think of each other simultaneously and not even be together and being that piece of the puzzle that fit right for each other and we also compliment each other as a whole.
Sad to say. My husband is my not soulmate. I do know who my soulmate is and he feels the same about me. He is married to someone else to. An important point to add is that we knew we were soulmates before we married who we married. But that's another story.
I believe in soulmates. Also, I believe my husband is my soulmate. Once we were married...there was a completeness that I had not experienced in other relationships. I agree with wife k, we also compliment each other...
uhm, I just don't know. That was a great analysis and now I'm even more so confused if my husband is my soulmate or my one true love. It's funny to say when I met my husband I would not eat in front of him....strange I know but after time and truly getting to know him and what values and morals he believed in, I began to see the real him. We both come from completely different backgrounds and when they say opposites attract- it's true. I can't say for sure when we first met that it was love at first sight or we were destine to be soulmates but after our lives grew and God's love poured into each of us we undeniably loved each other. We could see the love in each other for each other but life's maturity had not kicked in yet. Not sure I said that right but let me just say when we got together we were young and the world around us seemed to paint a picture of a distant love(one that allowed you to love only so deep) but we have been married a long time and we have been determined to make love a present day source. He knows me and I know him. I accept him for who he is and he accepts me for who I am. when I look at him I still get the young girl giggles. When he looks at me I feel like everything is ok. So maybe I did find my soulmate hiding in the world just waiting for something or SOMEONE ;) to allow him to love.
Unfortunately my husband is not my soulmate. I believe in soulmates, but I'm not sure if I've ever met mine. I know my husband isn't mine because he doesn't "see me, or through me." I don't know who he sees, but it sure as hell isn't me! My ex's see me better than he does (isn't that a shame!) I think it would be a great joy to find my soulmate and really live the life that God intended for me to live (had I not tried to help God)!
That is FUNNY Frustrated wife! "It sure in the hell ain't him!" I hear you there. It's amazing... I think the hardest thing for a married women is being married to someone who you feel isn't the one! It's like what do you do. But what's even worse is when you know who the one is?
Yes, I believe in soul mates. My husband is defiantly my soul mate and my destiny. However I do feel that I have had a soul mate when I was in my early twenties and I was just to young to realize it then. I was fortunate to have a second chance at having one. When we were dating it was so effortless we fit together so very well. I will say that even though we are soul mates we have to work at this marriage thing.... life can throw so many obstacles your way to put doubt in your mind to cause you to not keep your mate in your Soul!!! Love is a choice and if you really chose to love you will reap great benefits!!
I believe that there are different soulmates out there for everybody and that it's just a matter of which one you choose to be with. Under the description given here, I believe I have met ONE of my soulmates in my lifetime. No, it's not my husband. It's my ex and he feels the same but I'm not going anywhere because I married my husband anyway and had kids with him. Oh well. I was miserable for years but I'm choosing to be happy now anyway. It took a looooong time for me to get to this point of happiness and contentment that I have in my marriage despite the fact that we aren't married to our soulmate.
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