Monday, March 1, 2010
If your husband was a great guy ALL AROUND BUT BUT BUT he was WACK in the LOVEMAKING AREA, would you stay?
I had an interesting email from a WIFE. She asked me "If your husband was a great guy, had integrity, never thought he cheated on you, brought home the money, loved God and was a great father BUT didn't satisfy you in BED at all. Would you stay?" I was like wow! I am going to ask the ladies this question. I really couldn't tell a lady to stay or not. I believe it's what is most important you. Is everything else mention above important or is unbelievable sex important. I KNOW I KNOW great sex is important, BUT can you talk to him and tell him what he is not doing or is it just a lost cause? Also is the lack for good or great sex making you unhappy? Can you have a life without great sex? And say it doesn't get better, do you want to stay. Because you could get a man that BLOWS your mind sexually but has none of the other good qualites you mentioned above that your husband has. You are just taking a chance either way. Like I said, I wouldn't tell you to leave or stay, you know what you can live with or live without. I will say at least tell him how you want it girl! Show him how you want it girl! Give him a chance to get it right first. Or have you? LOL