Monday, February 1, 2010

WELCOME WIVES!!


Welcome to a blog site dedicated to married women. Now this site is not for a certain type of married woman but every type of married woman. The site is designed to be an outlet. This is a site where you can be yourself or write your post anonymously. The objective is that you write!


Write about your experiences, good and bad. Write your opinion (some may agree and some may not), write about your desires, goals, dreams and even setbacks, let downs, and lonely nights (even though you are married!). Just write.


My experience as a married woman is what has lead me to write this blog. Because being married for 7 years (this September) has allowed me to experience some things. Good and bad. Also, I realize being a married woman is sometimes the loneliest position to have. Why? Because we as married women feel we can't talk to anyone because we feel we are the only one going through. But if the truth be told, alot of us are going through the same thing.


Do we all know each other? No. But we are all married and have that as a common thread. Let us grow together, over come together and learn from one another. I welcome you to W.I.F.E because I have asked myself even in year 1 "WHY ISN'T FOREVER EASY?"


I personally have a strong opinion about Why isn't is easy for me? But those thoughts will come out over time. Each day we will have a topic of day concerning many issues married women deal with. I pray you will check this site daily and write in. Also, if you have a question of the day suggestion please email me at WIFE2010@gmail.com


Remember I am not an expert on the subject but I am a married woman who is living this married life! WHEWWWWWWWW! And I am expressing my opinion. Express yours!


Our First Question of the day!!!!!! (Let's get started ladies!)
QOTD 2/2/10 Why did you get married? Was it because you wanted to marry your husband or you just wanted to be married?

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

As someone who shares your wedding anniversary, I married because my husband was quiet, yet ambitious. We were friends before we began dating. Since I am a social butterfly and outgoing I felt that he would be a perfect match because I couldn't put up with someone exactly like me. Like the bible states in regards to a mans love for his wife; God first loved man, and he (my husband)firstloved me.

Anonymous said...

The day I got married I thought it was because I wanted to marry my husband! I do love him very much, but years later I believe it was because I really wanted to get married. At my church marriage is promoted and it really makes you feel like that is what you want to have. And don't get me wrong, Marriage is a good thing. But it's a hard thing and especially hard if you feel you didn't marry the right one. Now that I am married, I see the grass wasn't so green on this side of the fence. But with all that being said, God gave me a good one. I can't complain about that.

Anonymous said...

After 9 years of marriage, I know that it was ordained by God. Even though things have not always "happy go lucky," but I know that it was God who brought us together. We have laughed together, cried together, but most of all prayed together and it is those prayers that I know has sustained us. A former pastor once told us that you don't fall in love...you "grow" to love. That piece of advice has kept me from walking away during those times when I questioned whether or not we did the right thing.

Monica Neal said...

Hey Bee,
I think this blog is a great idea! I'm not married but I've thawt abt marriage with da guy I'm wit. Mostly cuz I think I'm gettn old & how people judge me abt not being married. I think this blog is good for women that are not married & who have given up on love..cuz we think there are no good men out there. Reading these comments have inspired me about love again & maybe there is someone out there for me. Also it makes u think abt gettn married for da right reason & not just for da sake of saying I'se married now! Keep it up Bee!

Wife BK said...

Thanks Monica! That means alot to me. Even though you are single.... you can always come to the website and see what we are talking about! Stay tuned b/c I wanted to incorporate Single Thursdays where single ladies write questions and have married women give their opinion.

Monica said...

U know my nosey butt gone be all ON your page,LOL! I'll be BAACK!

The Wife said...

Do you all mind hitting the follow me button on the right? Follow me! LOL

Anonymous said...

I MARRIED FOR BOTH REASON BUT ONE MORE THAN THE OTHER being that I was single and tired of living wrong just wanted to do the right thing and he just happen to want to marry me.

wife k said...

Dont have that problem since my husband is not close to his family and those that I have meet have not shown themsevels being the friendly type even though there are two that are my favorite and I love an aunt by marriage as well as his aunt.

Anonymous said...

I got married because I was in love. The representation of himself was great! He was everything that I wanted in a man. As time when on, the representative left and the real one began to show himself. It has caused me to rethink everything. I used to think that love conquers all, but that is some fairy tale bull! There have to be some elemental things in place, like being equally yoked. That is really hard to overcome and will continue being a challenge throughout the marriage. As a Christian there are some things that I didn't want to do, but now I think that we should've lived together for a couple of years. People cannot hide who they are for long, once you live together.

Anonymous said...

I got married because I saw potential in him. I saw he would be a good father and husband and of course I loved him. I already had a child and I didn't want to have children with different fathers which seemed to be the trend back then. Also,we bought a house together before we were married and I was pregnant with his first child. Therefore, the best thing to do was to get married. Let's be real, you have to see yourself with your husband not only for love, but a great individual with character and integrity. After 22 years we are still have a strong marriage. He is a wonderful man I wouldn't trade him for no one. We know each other likes and dislikes. As all married couples you will have your ups and downs, but we are in it to win it!