Good Morning WIFES!
This question was brought to me by a very good Friend and WIFE Follower....How many times do you have sex with your husband in a week? I think it's a good question and one to make you think. When she asked me the question, I stopped and thought... hummmmm probably not as much as he would like. I can't really quantify mine with a number, b/c it varies week to week, it varies with my emotion and on and on. Would my husband say he was satisfied with the amount he gets? Probably not! LOL! BUT, maybe if he wash them dishes..........OK, let me stop. But seriously, it's something to think about at least for me.
So how many times do you have sex with the hubby in a week? My response is "I'm good!", His response would probably be, "Not Enough!". And that means, I need to work on it.
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LOL!!! This is a great question! One that my hubby and I laugh about all the time...actually, we were up one night watching a minister talk and he just so happened to be talking about the same thing; especially as it relates to women and PMS (emotions, physical symptoms etc.). And, just by hearing what he had to say, confirmed what I've been telling my hubby all these years is that sex is the last thing on my mind when I'm having PMS;} When we first got married one of the first things I told my husband was that I don't like to be touched intimately during that time of the month. It is something that we continue to discuss. So to answer the question, I cannot really say how many times a week we have sex..like Mrs. K states, it varies...how I'm feeling, if I'm going through PMS, if I'm tired from dealing with the kids etc...but what I can say is when it happens he's satisfied(LOL):}
Yes, this is a good question. I would love to give my husband some dessert at least 3x's a week.... sexual satisfaction in some form or the other ;-). Unfortunately I have not been able to live up to my own expectation of giving he something he can feel as often as he would like. I would have to say, no I do not give him as much as he wants. I need to do better in this area... HELP!!!! I want to please him as often as he wants it. Side note My Hubby knows how to please me so I get "Mine" when we go there.
Well I think that when we first got started in our marriage we said at least three times a week but in reality Im gonna put it out there it can and has been only once a week but as Bk said thats not an every week thing some weeks two times a day but then that would be twice a week however as all of us stated he is satisfied when he does get it but my hubby wants it every day if he could not just sex but something in the ball park of it however due to our lives with work and kids we allow these things to make an excuse of not being bothered but we all want it more than what we get it seem like so ladies we must make it a point to get on top of our game (lol)and continue to satisfy them as well as ourselves and not make it an apponitment thing or like a schdule just do it :-D any time.
About once every week or two. :( I'd love to have "dessert" 3-4 times a week but then my husband swears that much "dessert" would kill him! Lol! When we got married, I think it was 3-4 times a week then but that was before kids and when we were newlyweds. For some strange reason, whenever my cycle is here, I want it even MORE. The thought of that just grosses him out so it rarely happens. I say, "That's what red towels are for!" Anyway, he can't keep up with me even during my non-cycle days so after I've invited him to have "dessert" with me and he says no or he's too tired --I go on my merry little way and put one of my toys to use! ;-)
The 4th comment sounds like me! When he cums so damn quick, he can hardly get it up again and I am sitting there like, uh hello!!!!!!!
I don't have any toys! HMPH! I might need to get some.
We have sex everyday. I don't see how some of you last with the once a week or every two weeks!!! Are you serious! Are you not attracted to your husband anymore??? How much did you do it when you were dating or before children??? The only time we don't is when I'm on my cycle or when we are arguing. Even then sometimes we have sex whether we are angry or not. We used to have sex at least twice a day! Sometimes three or four times if it was the weekend. In the morning and before bed! I love it. When everything else is falling apart, we are still in sync in this dept.
Well, I must be totally different because sex is good but I am not just that interested. If he gets dessert, it is maybe once a week or once every two weeks. It is definitely not as much as he likes. I don't know what it is! However, when it does happen, it is good! I says that he is satisfied but I am sure if he could have his way, it would be everyday. One time, we were listening to a preacher and his wife talk about the value of sex in the marriage and he says that you should have sex 7 times a week. We tried that BUT my husband said that it was too much...then, of course, I got pregnant. I guess it was to much! LOL! Nevertheless, I am falling on my duty if I am supposed to give him dessert alot. Help with the house, kids more often, then maybe I won't be so tired to give him something..something.
Okay I am just cathing up. When I first read this post, it had me thinking...tonight desert is on me.(which means i initiate it) I know I dont do it enough lets just say that! My hubby would say he is not satisfied, cause I swear he is a sex addict compared to me.. he would do it 10 times a day if we could. I really have just kinda lost that hot spicey spark for sex, I guess with everything like kids, work, issues and other things...the spark just dont happen as often. I am concern about it, cause he has mention it to me, but i have gave him diffrent suggestion to help me get in the mood, like "wash the dishes" lol j/k I feel ya!!!, put the kids to bed, pick your clothes up, vacuum, cook, bring me some flowers LMBO! But really, I am trying to work on Desert often, cause i dont want him trying to get Bananna Pudding from Betty Crockett! Thanx for the question, it helped me to think about it a little more, and commit to cooking Desert inspite of how I feel.
Having sex with your husband is such a wonderful way to nurture your marriage. We nurture our marriage for each other adn for our kids. We have several kids and my husband and I still get it on 3-4 times per week. We both work outside the home as well. Sex is great for the heart, it neutralizes stress, and you burn so many calories! Cardiologists, particularly Dr. Oz (from the Oprah show) recommends sex at least 3-4 times per week. So ladies, I know you are tired and he gets on your nerves sometimes, but just experiment for a few weeks and try some sex therapy!! LOL!!! By the way, sprinkle a little cinnamon behind your ears and watch him gravitate towards you like a magnet! LOL!! Hopefully, he is not allergic to cinnamon!:)
Cinnamon huh! I promise I am going to try that tonight!!!!!!!!
Also a friend said that she takes a now-a-later and sucks it until it's just about right and places it down there for about 30 minutes to marinate and her husband doesn't know... when he goes down, she says the flavor knocks him out! I gotta try that too!
You are all very lucky to still feel wanted, muhusband only wants sex about every six weeks with me
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