Married life isn't always easy, but with the right person - It is always worth it. This blog is my journey in the mighty married life, showing the good, bad & the great. The hubby, the kids & just life! Some topics are sensitive and some are a blast! Either way, I am going to try to enjoy life!
Do I submit? As a rule, no. I am very willing to listen and compromise and on those things that matter more to him, I will yield to his wishes. The problem with submission is that it asks me to quietly suppress my own judgement, which goes against who I am as a person. Anyway, my husband wouldn't want or expect that from me, so it's not a point of conflict.
Thanks. I'm glad that you all addressed this. One of the things that you said resonated with me and it also tied in all three of the topics that you discussed. You said that a person has to be ready and that all the praying is not going to change them unless they want to be changed. Well I have a disrespectful husband. He doesn't call me outside my name, but he is disrespetful in every other way. My opinion doesn't matter, threats like you better not! and things of that sort. He also doesn't go to church and doesn't look like he has any plans to submit to God, that that brings me to my conclusion. We don't have any children yet and I don't want my children to grow up thinking that this is how a maariage should be. I want to break the cycle. I am really considering divorce. I don't want to wake up in 10yrs and realize that God gave me an out a long time ago by not having any children now! and I did nothing about it and the cycle continues!
Wow! @ post right before this one! I am amazed at the revelation you had via the vlog. Do you go to church? Do you have a relationship with God? Seriously pray and allow yourself to be open to a real answer whether your feel God is telling you to stay or not. Please keep in touch via the blog or email and let us know how you are doing. That's why we are here!
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Please get a battery for that fire alarm.
I will and thanks... but is that all you have to say is get a battery?
Do I submit? As a rule, no. I am very willing to listen and compromise and on those things that matter more to him, I will yield to his wishes. The problem with submission is that it asks me to quietly suppress my own judgement, which goes against who I am as a person. Anyway, my husband wouldn't want or expect that from me, so it's not a point of conflict.
Thanks. I'm glad that you all addressed this. One of the things that you said resonated with me and it also tied in all three of the topics that you discussed. You said that a person has to be ready and that all the praying is not going to change them unless they want to be changed. Well I have a disrespectful husband. He doesn't call me outside my name, but he is disrespetful in every other way. My opinion doesn't matter, threats like you better not! and things of that sort. He also doesn't go to church and doesn't look like he has any plans to submit to God, that that brings me to my conclusion. We don't have any children yet and I don't want my children to grow up thinking that this is how a maariage should be. I want to break the cycle. I am really considering divorce. I don't want to wake up in 10yrs and realize that God gave me an out a long time ago by not having any children now! and I did nothing about it and the cycle continues!
Wow! @ post right before this one! I am amazed at the revelation you had via the vlog. Do you go to church? Do you have a relationship with God? Seriously pray and allow yourself to be open to a real answer whether your feel God is telling you to stay or not. Please keep in touch via the blog or email and let us know how you are doing. That's why we are here!
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