Monday, May 31, 2010

How many times DO you forgive a cheating spouse

This video is Part 1! The title says it all and so does the video. How many times do you forgive? It depends on your marriage and the situation. There is no perfect answer. Be sure to watch Part II as well.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Everytime, your husband cheats on you, will you forgive him each and everytime and even if he gives you an STD............then are you willing to forgive him and just put up with his continuous cheating until he gives you a deadly disease that ultimately kills you slowly.

B said...

What the HELL? Who said we will forgive him each and every time? Not I? Are you a man or woman saying this? Is this what you do or have done! Just asking cause, I am not forgiving 2 or more! Maybe the first time.... MAYBE and that's a strong maybe! But FOR SURE 2nd time or more.... I am outti 5000 g!!!

April said...

Let me just say.....we ROCKIN' that girl-Lol! Topic on point!!! I'm posting it to my page! How many times do you forgive a cheating spouse!?!? My answer, the same as it was then, it depends! I would never say what I wouldnt do but it will be 'difficult' if I did forgive. It was truly take the Grace of my God to get me through and to also help me deal with my "now" trust issues. Loving this topic B'! Keep em; coming girl, WE NEED TO HEAR THIS STUFF! and we bold enough to talk about it and I give you huge credit for allowing God to use you so we can deal with these issues that our parents told us to 'keep to ourselves'! Love you to pieces!!!

Anonymous said...

Just want to say that I am a woman that has been through this several times. In the beginning when it happened I went through a very, very depressed time trying to figure out what went wrong, what I did wrong and what the HELL is going on. But, when I found GOD all it took was praying on my part for him and for me. I don't have an answer on how many times you should forgive for cheating, you take your thoughts and concerns to God and God only and he will never leave you or forsake you. This is not an opinion poll of the people and what any of us think, because only you know how much you can take. But I suggest you pray and continue to pray until you are happy and content. Sometimes people, and not just men b/c women cheat too have a curse on them that the spouse has to pray off of them and continue to pray. Cheating is a tactic from the Enemy to destroy your family, but when you show praise and thanks to God the Enemy hates to see that. So give GOD some thanks for the things he is doing in your life and just take it to the closet and pray and pray. Put God before any man and I PROMISE you that he won't let you down.