Tuesday, June 15, 2010

10 reasons SHE (for the fellas) might not be the one!

Hello All,

We had fun doing this video! The topic for today is, Reasons SHE (for the fellas) might not be the one!
Here are just some of the things we talked about 1. Clean the house (she doesn't have a desire). 2. Name of another dude tattoos on her neck 3. If all the dudes in the club know her name! 4. She doesn't have confidence (in her own sexy), you always have to reassure here. 5. Her best pair of shoes are Air Jordans 6. selfish 7. She dresses better than the inside of her house looks.Ok...... we got stuck! You can add the rest!

**I hope and pray no one gets upset! We are just having fun and we are not experts, that's why we had a man on there! **


lala said...

Funny! I like!

Mr. Man. said...

The sad thing is that most men know that she isn’t the one. But for many reason (I don’t have to even name them) they continue in the relationship. Men have the same basic instinct that a woman has, but the right shape or move and we ignore those inward voices. How many times have men told their friend? She might not cook, but …….. Or her house isn’t the cleanest but………… And the classic I would never take her home to mama, but……… (Just keeping it real.) Some of the thing you mentioned is, keeping a clean house or all the men knowing her name. If you have to reassure her of her sexiness you will probably have to deal with jealousy. A lot of men knowing her name could mean a lot of things. It doesn’t mean that they all know her in an intimate way, but it is something that may need to be discussed. As far as the way she dress, that could be her way of trying to keep up with the Joneses which mean she is probably materialist and never satisfied. One of the most important things to find out is what her religious beliefs are or how she feels a child should be raised. If she is a woman with kid/s and that child has no respect for her that is a sign. If her girls are her number one priority that is a sign. If she only goes to church on holidays that is a sign. There are many things that can be a sign. The real question is do we recognize the signs and if so we ignore them? In the beginning of any relationship one must ask the questions, what is it that he/she does that I will over look. But remember if you overlook it now. You should overlook it forever. Because the longer a habit last the longer it take to break. And if it isn’t a problem in the years leading up to a marriage, then it should not be one after you are married. .
Mr. Man.